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Your Opinion About Your Website Is Costing You Clients

Dilshan KelsenDilshan Kelsen Mar 7, 2026

Most businesses treat their website like a piece of furniture.

They want something that looks good. Something that represents their brand. Something they can adjust themselves whenever something doesn't feel right.

The problem: a website is not a piece of furniture. It's a sales instrument.

The Invisible Difference Between Building and Thinking

When you look under the hood of a car, you immediately see: this is complicated. Nobody would go to a mechanic and say: "Make it the way I want it."

But a website? That looks simple.

Text, images, a few buttons. Anyone can change that, right?

This exact perception is why businesses invest thousands of euros into websites that don't work. They optimise for the wrong things. They make decisions based on personal preferences instead of conversion mechanics.

The difference between building a website and strategic web design doesn't lie in the technical execution. It lies in the why behind every decision.

What You Don't See Determines What Works

Imagine you change a headline on your website. Just a few words. Sounds better to your ears.

What you don't see: that headline was in that spot for a specific reason. It addressed a specific pain point at a specific moment in the customer journey. The word choice was not accidental.

When Michael Aagaard added the word "guarantee" to a privacy text ("We guarantee 100% privacy"), conversions increased by 19.47%. A single word.

That's not coincidence. That's strategy.

45% of marketers say that the quality of copy is the biggest factor in conversion rates — and yet most businesses invest more in design than in copywriting.

Why? Because design is visible. Strategy is not.

The Curse of Knowledge

There's a reason you can't write your own website.

You know your business too well.

Lee LeFever puts it this way: "The more you know about something, the harder it becomes to imagine what it's like not to know it." This is called the Curse of Knowledge.

You speak in industry terms that feel obvious to you. You skip explanations because they seem trivial. You answer questions your customers never asked, and ignore the questions they actually have.

In a Stanford study, participants were asked to tap out songs while others tried to guess which song it was. The tappers estimated that 50% of listeners would recognise the song. In reality, it was 2.5%.

That is the gap between what you think you're communicating and what actually lands.

Why "Just Doing It Yourself" Doesn't Work

I often hear: "But it's MY business. I know what looks good for MY brand."

That's true. You know what looks good.

But do you know what sells?

Landing pages with fewer than 100 words convert 50% better than those with 500 words. That goes against the instinct of most business owners, who think: "I need to explain everything."

When Underwater Audio changed the placement of their testimonials so they appeared before the call-to-action in the F-shaped reading pattern, sales increased by 35.6%. Same testimonials. Different position.

These are not coincidences. These are patterns that have emerged over years and thousands of tests.

When you have access to your website and "just quickly change something," you're making uninformed decisions. Not because you're not smart, but because you don't have the information that would support that decision.

The Multi-Discipline Problem

Here's something the industry doesn't like to admit: no single person can master every aspect of a website at a high level.

An effective website requires:

  • Strategic copywriting
  • Conversion-optimised design
  • User experience architecture
  • Psychological understanding of buying decisions
  • Technical implementation
  • Brand coherence
  • SEO (search engine optimisation)
  • Data privacy compliance

Each of these areas is a full-time job. Anyone who claims to be equally good at all of them is either lying or mediocre at all of them.

I hired a copywriter for my own website. Why? Because I know that copywriting is its own discipline — one that takes years of experience to truly master.

That's not a weakness. That's realism.

If you think you can be a plumber AND an expert in branding, marketing, sales, and web design at the same time, you're underestimating how much knowledge lives in each of those fields.

What Really Happens When You "Just Quickly Change Something"

Let's get concrete.

You change a text. Suddenly the sales flow isn't as clear. You add a section. The layout looks odd on desktop, and you never checked it on mobile. You make the logo bigger because "people need to know who I am." You move sections around because you think the info about yourself should come first — instead of addressing the problem you solve.

Each of these changes seems small. Harmless.

But together, they destroy the strategic coherence that made the website work.

That's why I ask clients who insist on changes I consider harmful: "Please write that down and sign it." Not to be difficult. But to make it visible that an expertise is being overridden.

The Difference Between Preference and Performance

75% of consumers judge the credibility of a business based on website design. That means your website is not a cost factor. It's a strategic asset.

But most businesses treat it like a cost factor. They minimise the investment. They want control over something they don't understand. They optimise for personal satisfaction instead of business results.

That is the fundamental mistake.

When you build a website, you're not building something you like. You're building something that sells. Those two things sometimes overlap. Sometimes they don't.

Poor grammar or spelling mistakes can increase bounce rate by 85% and reduce time on page by 8%. Landing pages optimised for mobile devices can improve conversion rates by 27%.

These are not opinions. These are measurements.

Why Best Practices Exist

Here's the uncomfortable truth: most small businesses don't have enough traffic to run statistically significant tests.

You can't A/B test with 200 visitors a month. The numbers mean nothing.

That's why best practices exist. They are the result of millions of tests over decades. They're not perfect for every case, but they are the best starting point you have.

When I build a website, I don't start from zero. I start with the accumulated knowledge from 30+ years of web design research and thousands of tests. The hero section should always present the problem and the solution. Testimonials go before the call-to-action. Personalised CTAs convert 202% better than generic ones.

These are not rules I invented. These are patterns that have proven effective across thousands of websites.

What Strategic Web Design Really Means

Strategic web design doesn't mean everything looks perfect.

It means every decision has a reason. A measurable, traceable reason.

The order of sections follows the customer journey. The word choice addresses specific objections. The placement of social proof builds trust at critical decision points. The visual hierarchy guides the eye to the most important information.

You don't see this when you look at the finished website. You only see text and images.

But this invisible architecture is the difference between a website that looks like a website — and a website that sells.

The Question You Should Ask Yourself

The next time you think "I'll just change that myself," ask yourself:

Is this change based on what I like — or on what converts?

Do I know the difference?

If the answer is "I don't know," that's not a weakness. That's the first step toward a website that actually works.

Because web design is not the same as building a website. It's the sum of strategic thinking, psychological understanding, and technical execution. And that combination can't be googled.